Adam, Adam, Adam.
double standards
“Women’s Work”
People always tell mami she’s lucky she had at least one daughter. They tell her I will help her and grandma. That will take care of them. No one ever mentions my brothers.
Victim Double Standards
CN: SA, CSA, domestic violence, corporal punishment
Dating Immodesty

A Mandesty reader sent this in and I realized that dating sites are a great place to find men who need to learn of Modesty for Men.
This fellow above is a perfect example of the type of man I mean. These men post seductive pictures and then complain women don’t respect them and only want sex. Men, how do you expect to find a woman “with substance” if you’re displaying yourself like a piece of antelope ass? How do you expect hungry lions women to handle that kind of pressure?
Honestly, I blame the fathers. They’re out there modeling this behavior so their sons think it’s perfectly normal.
It’s a damn shame.
Clothed Immodesty
Readers, many men think that by simply covering up, they’re engaging in Mandesty. Unfortunately, that is not the case. As we’ve discussed before Modesty is also about your attitude and how you carry yourself. But Modesty is also about WHAT you wear.
Sir, those pants are too tight! Please, think of your future children and let that area breath!

Here we have the reverse problem. OK pants, but the shirt, sir. That V-neck isn’t modest. No one will look at your eyes.


As we all know, mainstream media isn’t immune from immodesty.

Oh Mr. Rogers…this isn’t the American way at all.
Modesty, Eh?
Modesty isn’t just about the way you dress. Modesty is also about your attitude and how you carry yourself.
So let’s talk about Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau.

Back when Trudeau became PM, I saw my Facebook feed explode with how good-looking this guy is. Politicians should be serious people, not inspire unclean thoughts in millions of women.

Back in 2011, Justin Trudeau performed a striptease for charity. So, he took his clothes off for money. Do you know what we call that?
Trudeau used to be a boxer.

Why is he still in office? Look at how he’s showing off!
Look here at how hard he tries to show he is more than just a pretty face. It must be tough to have people be surprised that a handsome man is also intelligent. He should have thought of that before playing up to the cameras.
Yes, we have talked about smiling. A smile is the best thing a man can wear, second only to modest dress. But, just like certain clothing can make a man look like a slut, so too can too much smiling.

What are you doing with that?!

Young man, I appreciate that you are keeping up with your house work. It is important that you keep a clean home for your wife. Making your wife happy is important. But how do you expect to get a wife if you engage in such behavior?
Underthings are just that UNDERthings

Do you think Calvin Klein makes underwear so trollops like you can take unchaste pictures?
Edit: Readers, it seems this Calvin Klein fellow does make underwear for trollops to parade in! Do not under any circumstances google Calvin Klein Marky Mark ad!
Mandesty is the sacrifice I’m willing to make

Readers, I admit I had a hard time writing this post. This young man’s facial expressions and hand placement communicated many impure thoughts to me. I needed to pray for guidance. Jesus told me continue on my mission of battling immodesty in men.
It’s a very big sacrifice but I am willing to make it.
Poor Unfortunate Soul

Look at this guy, isn’t he sad?
Wouldn’t you think immodesty’s bad?
Wouldn’t you think he’s the guy
The guy who shows everything