Guest Posts for Equality: Making up your Own Mind

In the run-up to Ireland’s Marriage Equality referendum on May 22nd, I’ve invited a series of guest posters– people from Ireland or who live here, of many different backgrounds and orientations- to share their thoughts on the referendum, the campaign, and what it means to them. Contributions to Guest Posts for Equality are welcome- drop me a message

Clodagh is an emotional baggage handler, activist and messer. She has a special interest in body autonomy and empowerment. You can find her over on Twitter, and you really should. 

 

Guest Posts for Equality: Making up your Own Mind
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buggrit, Terry. Buggrit. 

“All right,” said Susan. “I’m not stupid. You’re saying humans need… fantasies to make life bearable.”
REALLY? AS IF IT WAS SOME KIND OF PINK PILL? NO. HUMANS NEED FANTASY TO BE HUMAN. TO BE THE PLACE WHERE THE FALLING ANGEL MEETS THE RISING APE.
“Tooth fairies? Hogfathers? Little—”
YES. AS PRACTICE. YOU HAVE TO START OUT LEARNING TO BELIEVE THE LITTLE LIES.
“So we can believe the big ones?”
YES. JUSTICE. MERCY. DUTY. THAT SORT OF THING.
“They’re not the same at all!”
YOU THINK SO? THEN TAKE THE UNIVERSE AND GRIND IT DOWN TO THE FINEST POWDER AND SIEVE IT THROUGH THE FINEST SIEVE AND THEN SHOW ME ONE ATOM OF JUSTICE, ONE MOLECULE OF MERCY. AND YET—Death waved a hand. AND YET YOU ACT AS IF THERE IS SOME IDEAL ORDER IN THE WORLD, AS IF THERE IS SOME…SOME RIGHTNESS IN THE UNIVERSE BY WHICH IT MAY BE JUDGED.
“Yes, but people have got to believe that, or what’s the point—”
MY POINT EXACTLY.”

You were clever and witty and honest and brave. You made me laugh and think and sometimes even cry. I hope that, although there was no justice to your illness, that you took the end as you chose.

RIP, you splendid, splendid human. 

Thank you for all the little lies, and for how well you lived the big ones.

“No one is actually dead until the ripples they cause in the world die away…”

You ain’t going anywhere, then, for a long, long time.

buggrit, Terry. Buggrit. 

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