Lets have another sit down.
Take a moment to fully read the Tweet below and the response to it:
Jesse’s comment is a masterful example of a perceived sense of male supremacy wedded to an ocean of ignorance.
His purpose is to shame women for having sex.
He is trying to fortify the archaic, misogynistic societal norms that have long been in place that have oppressively regulated the lives and behavior of women.
He conveys much about himself in his comment:
The slut shaming he engages in is for the likely purpose of “putting women in their place”. Its an attempt to regulate their behavior by way of public scorn. It is a given that he does not think limitations on men having sex should or do exist (though it is possible he thinks queer men should not have same sex interactions)
He thinks he has the first clue what he is talking about. He does not, as is made clear by the response he received. In addition to significantly reducing the chances of unwanted pregnancy, there are many benefits to birth control.
Even if there were no other benefits, “I do not wish to become pregnant unless and until I am ready” is reason enough all on its own to use birth control.
Once you accept that women are human beings free to act as they choose–including making decisions about who they have sex with, how many partners they have, or how often they have sex–you come to understand why Jesse’s comment is fractally wrong.
As if to underscore his contempt for women, Jesse refers to _women_ as _girls_, an infantalizing act that reinforces his misplaced sense of male superiority by treating women as children in need of a mans assistance.
Guys, don’t be like Jesse. He is a misogynistic ass.
Your homework is a group assignment: interrogate the idea of “redistributing sex” and explain why it is a morally abhorrent concept.