My Sexual Resolutions

(Note: This piece discusses my personal sexuality and tastes in porn. Family members and others who don’t want to read that, please don’t.)

I’m one of those scary people who makes New Year’s Resolutions and takes them fairly seriously. I like having an annual tradition of taking stock of my life and my goals, thinking about what I want to accomplish in the coming year and deciding what I need to do to make that happen. I think it’s my hyper-responsibility gene kicking in. (“Happy New Year! Are you really living up to your potential?”) I even follow through on my resolutions more often than not.

Usually my resolutions have to do with my writing career: finishing a book proposal, contacting new publishers, etc. But this year, I’ve decided to take my own advice about making sex a priority. I’m going to put some conscious thought into what I want my sex life to look like in the coming year — and what actions I need to take to make that happen.

If this inspires you to make some sexual resolutions of your own — speak up in the comments and tell me what they are!


Thus begins my latest piece on the Blowfish Blog, My Sexual Resolutions. To find out more, read the rest of the piece. (And if you’re inspired to comment here, please consider cross-posting your comment to the Blowfish Blog — they like comments there, too.) Enjoy — and Happy New Year!

My Sexual Resolutions

3 thoughts on “My Sexual Resolutions

  1. 1

    Ok, after looking at many of your blog entries and your “about” you section.. I’ve come to the conclusion..
    You’re a fucking genius…
    Glad to run into you on the information super-highway..

  2. 3

    Keeping up my ‘physical culture’ projects:…check
    Kegels: well OK, as we speak,
    Sexual variations: Um. that leads to propositioning.
    Bad biz for men. Revealing sexual interest is simultaneously:
    1. compulsory for any hope of intimate connection.
    2. universally scorned from every political/social perspective.
    Of course, number 2 applies equally for women so everybody is screwed and cant get laid.

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