I don’t often check my “filtered messages” on Facebook. I don’t get many, and by the time I get around to remembering the secret extra inboxes Facebook helpfully uses as a preemptive trash bin, many of the people messaging me there have already had their accounts disabled on account of being spambots. It’s a short queue of “Facebook User” interspersed with men from overseas asking outrageous things of me.
Which brings me to Niall Corbally, the drift-race enthusiast and proud Tweeter who decided that messaging overseas trans lesbians to get them to perform sexual violence upon his gonads was a good use of his time. This is the message he sent me at the beginning of the month, that I found earlier today:
Most of my junked messages aren’t nearly this graphic, so Niall Corbally’s overture led to a dear, magnificently-bearded associate of mine to make him some offers.
So far, we know Niall Corbally here is a chaser, specifically fond of femme trans women to such a degree that he’ll solicit their services overseas without even noticing the “Engaged” in their relationship status. One rather doubts that he expects to pay for any virtual ball-busting he might eventually receive. But my associate and I extracted our price anyway. After all…
Mr. Corbally’s education in how to talk about trans people is woefully lacking. “What u look like as a woman,” indeed. I don’t feel bad about what comes next.
My associate is a master of sassy deflection. Niall Corbally is clever enough to try to figure out who I am, but not clever enough to see the rest of this scene unfolding in advance, or to figure out how gross it is to weigh his prospective scene partner’s cis-passing in such blatant terms. This is where the catfishing really takes off.
I’m not sharing the images of me used here, however innocuous they are on their own. Rest assured, I have truly delightful feet. If you’re my Facebook friend, you can find the photos yourself.My associate drives a hard bargain. Let’s see how Niall Corbally responds.This is where Niall Corbally starts losing his shit mid-sentence and otherwise behaving erratically, and where my associate begins pulling the rug out.Boom.
This seeping asshole didn’t even have the decency to remember that message! I’m insulted, and also blown away at how casually he brushes off its rudeness with “why not lol.” Even weirder, after this display of callous, cheerful douchebaggery, he now goes for a pity party.
This dude is pathetic.
And, with the blessing provided in that last comment, here is the story of how Niall Corbally sexually harassed me and got catfished by a demiguy on my behalf, and then had his fuckery displayed for all the world to see.
Alyssa Gonzalez has a Ph.D. in biology. Being interested in everything has made sure she knows a thing or two about everything, but her primary loves are biology, history, and sociology. Alyssa's backstory makes transgender, Hispanic, indigenous, and ex-Catholic issues and questions of particular focus. If you like what Alyssa has to say, consider becoming one of her Patreon patrons or buying her a gift .