Comments on: The First Rule of TAM https://the-orbit.net/almostdiamonds/2013/10/31/the-first-rule-of-tam/ Politics. Sex. Science. Art. You know, the good stuff. Wed, 06 Nov 2013 16:29:13 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.1.6 By: Stephanie Zvan https://the-orbit.net/almostdiamonds/2013/10/31/the-first-rule-of-tam/#comment-26683 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 16:29:13 +0000 http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamonds/?p=6283#comment-26683 In reply to Fishes.

I think Twitter is generally pretty opaque about why they do suspensions. However, her abusive behavior had been ramping up in the last few weeks. It was like she was making up for having been a little nicer while promoting her Kickstarter. She was tagging a lot of people in her tweet rants who have her blocked, me included. If I had to guess, I’d point to that.

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By: Fishes https://the-orbit.net/almostdiamonds/2013/10/31/the-first-rule-of-tam/#comment-26682 Wed, 06 Nov 2013 16:19:17 +0000 http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamonds/?p=6283#comment-26682 Sara Mayhew’s twitter account seems to have been suspended now… anyone know why?

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By: Flewellyn https://the-orbit.net/almostdiamonds/2013/10/31/the-first-rule-of-tam/#comment-26681 Fri, 01 Nov 2013 22:10:03 +0000 http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamonds/?p=6283#comment-26681 I am left, once again, to ponder a simple question:

Why is Sara Mayhew? Why is she?

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By: MrFancyPants https://the-orbit.net/almostdiamonds/2013/10/31/the-first-rule-of-tam/#comment-26680 Fri, 01 Nov 2013 21:37:28 +0000 http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamonds/?p=6283#comment-26680 Well, that certainly escalated quickly after Carrie’s initial tweet; having gotten busy at work, I had no idea it turned into such a crazy twitterthread.

Sara Mayhew is starting to remind me of Lee J. Cobb’s character in the classic “12 Angry Men”–ranting, clinging to emotional ideology, reactionary and above all else, angry. Such an over-the-top response to a simple opinion.

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By: Stephanie Zvan https://the-orbit.net/almostdiamonds/2013/10/31/the-first-rule-of-tam/#comment-26679 Fri, 01 Nov 2013 19:54:47 +0000 http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamonds/?p=6283#comment-26679 In reply to Martin Wagner.

For all her behavior, Wikipedia says she’s almost 30, so not a girl. She doesn’t really have a career as a public speaker either. Probably less than I do, and I don’t particularly, aside from the radio work.

At one time, she looked to have a promising future doing art that promoted skepticism. It wasn’t just the manga, though that’s the bit that everyone knows. She did some other interesting, if rough, stuff too. And then…not much happened. It’s possible that something else she tweeted yesterday shines a light on why. Or maybe she just ran out of steam. Hard to say.

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By: UnknownEric the Apostate https://the-orbit.net/almostdiamonds/2013/10/31/the-first-rule-of-tam/#comment-26678 Fri, 01 Nov 2013 19:37:11 +0000 http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamonds/?p=6283#comment-26678

how does she have a career as a public speaker?

Because she’s willing to unquestioningly kiss the behind of people like D.J. Grothe, who then book her for public speechifyin’.

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By: Martin Wagner https://the-orbit.net/almostdiamonds/2013/10/31/the-first-rule-of-tam/#comment-26677 Fri, 01 Nov 2013 19:22:57 +0000 http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamonds/?p=6283#comment-26677 Well, Sara appears to have clarified for me that groping isn’t really so much of a problem so long as you ensure you get groped in the right locations.

Who is this girl anyway, and how does she have a career as a public speaker?

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By: Heather https://the-orbit.net/almostdiamonds/2013/10/31/the-first-rule-of-tam/#comment-26676 Fri, 01 Nov 2013 18:28:08 +0000 http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamonds/?p=6283#comment-26676 I went to TAM and never felt unsafe*. I did, however, feel like I’d wasted $500 paying for a con where the likes of Sara Mayhew were speakers. It was a waste of my time and money.

*not at all a meant to contradict that other people have felt unsafe, have been harassed, have been assaulted there, just my experience

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By: F [is for failure to emerge] https://the-orbit.net/almostdiamonds/2013/10/31/the-first-rule-of-tam/#comment-26675 Fri, 01 Nov 2013 18:27:46 +0000 http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamonds/?p=6283#comment-26675 Well, after reading the entire Storify, I have discovered for myself one more use for Twitter: You know when you were a small child and thought of that oh-so-snappy comeback ten minutes after a confrontation had ended? Yeah, now you can Twit* those endlessly at will. Thanks for pointing this out, Sara.

*As opposed to meaningfully Tweeting something.

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By: F [is for failure to emerge] https://the-orbit.net/almostdiamonds/2013/10/31/the-first-rule-of-tam/#comment-26674 Fri, 01 Nov 2013 18:05:28 +0000 http://freethoughtblogs.com/almostdiamonds/?p=6283#comment-26674 Now I want to show up briefly in some sort of Mayhew venue in cargo shorts.

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